Paul was a pretty bold guy. As we have been going through the book of 1 Corinthians on Wednesday nights we have seen a theme in Paul’s writings to the church at Corinth.
1 Corinthians 8:9 – “Be careful however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak”
He even goes on in 1 Corinthians 11:17 to say– “In the following directives I have no praise for you, for your meetings do more harm than good”.
Now, can you actually imagine a minister or pastor saying this today? – “Please…don’t come to church…you would be better off staying at home. Go to the mall, the beach, or anywhere else….just don’t come to church”. You definitely don’t hear that often today.
Paul was saying that when the church was coming together, there were divisions among the people. There were differences among them and it was causing conflicts. One person believed one thing was right; someone else thought something else was right and there was constant division and conflict among the Corinthian church.
Let’s be honest, do you want to go to a church where there are constant power struggles and strife and division and you feel drained every time you attend? Well that is a church reality for some that no one wants to talk about.
I know you want to go to a church where you are making a difference in people’s lives, where you are encouraged to be all that God has designed you to be. You want to go to a place where you are built up on your journey with your creator.
But think about this…according to God’s word, not everyone is going to think like you do. When it comes to some topics, the Bible is very clear about what is right and what is wrong. What about areas in our life that the Bible doesn’t address? How then do we determine what is right and wrong? How do we process that? If the Bible doesn’t say its wrong, is it ok to do it? How do we address what I would call “The Gray Areas”?
Gray areas could be anything from what you wear, what you eat, what you watch. Should you dance, should you play cards, etc? The answer to these and hundreds of others are not specifically found in scripture. So, how do we decide what is right and what is wrong?
Here are 7 Biblical Guidelines To Dealing With Gray Areas:
- Edification – Will doing this strengthen my walk with God or not? (Romans 14:19)
Many people are asking the wrong question as it relates to gray areas …They ask: How far can I go and still keep my relationship with God? But the better question I think is: Will I grow in Christ because of it!?! - Excess – Will this slow me down in the race? (Hebrews 12:1)
The bible talks about our relationship with God and compares it to a runner running a race. Anything that hinders you from running the Christian race … you should do away with. There are some things that are not necessarily wrong, but if you add then to your life, they can slow you down. - Enslavement – Will this bring me into bondage? (Rom. 6:6; 2 Pet. 2:19; 1 Cor. 6:12)
How many times do people say “Well the Bible doesn’t say anything about it … So it MUST be permissible!! So they try it, and they are trapped, or they become addicted!! My question is: “How many people, because they had the liberty and freedom to drink became addicted to the drink?” I’m not saying everything you are doing is wrong … I’m Asking: “Are you enslaved to it?” When it becomes your master you have become enslaved!! - Evangelism – Will this lead others to Christ? (Eph. 5:15-16)
You have to pay careful attention as to how you act because people are watching!! Is what you are about to do going to hinder sharing the gospel with someone? As believers, we SHOULD think about how our actions affect others! - Emulation – Is this Christ-Like? (Gal. 3:27; Eph. 4:15; 1 John 2:6)
Is this something Jesus would watch? Is this a place Jesus would go? If we say we belong to Christ then we should listen when His Spirit speaks! - Example – Will my example help or hurt other Christians? (2 Cor. 3:2)
Will others stumble because of my example? Will they fall into sin if they follow my lead? Maybe I could avoid the temptation to stumble, but what about them? Pauls says: We are epistles (an OPEN BOOK) read by all men! People are watching how you act, and evaluating your claim to Christianity! - Exaltation – Will this glorify God? (1 Cor. 10:31)
For Paul the whole argument comes down to the end of 1 Corinthians 10 1 Corinthians 10:31 – NIV 31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Is it exalting Christ … is it lifting Him up … is it honoring Him? Paul says … even when it comes to areas of diet … if it’s going to cause someone to fall … I’m not going to do it!
Ultimately…Paul’s recurring theme in 1 Corinthians is this….. “But if you have not love”
1 Corinthians 13:1-3
1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames but have not love, I gain nothing.
Loving God means: You love what HE loves. This is the answer to the “gray areas” in our lives.
As always…Michele and I love you all dearly and look forward to seeing you again on Sunday as we discuss more “Reality Checks” in life.
Blessings,
Pastor Mark